SEXUAL RESPONSE IN MEN
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The basic physiological response is the same as women’s: engorgement of pelvic and genital blood vessels and increased muscular activity. However some manifestations of these changes are different in men.
• The first sign of arousal is erection of the penis, which becomes longer, wider and harder due to engorgement with blood. The erect penis rises to make an acute angle with the abdomen.
• As arousal proceeds the testes move upwards in the scrotum into a position close to the perineum. Muscle strands under the scrotal skin contract, making the sac smaller and wrinkling its skin.
• Increases in pulse and breathing rates, blood pressure and overall muscle tension are much the same as for women.
• Breast changes and skin flush are generally less than they are in women. During the plateau phase, erection of the penis becomes complete. The glans becomes deep purple and a tense ridge develops around its base. Semen collects in the seminal vesicles. The testes swell and are pulled closer to the perineum. The latter sign means that orgasm is imminent.
Orgasm in men, as in women, is a series of rhythmic contractions of the pubococcygeus muscles and the muscles in the walls of the internal reproductive organs. The big difference is that contraction in the seminal vesicles, prostate and urethra (resembling women’s uterine contractions) pushes the collected semen onwards and outwards. This is ejaculation. Semen is ejaculated as a series of spurts with enough force to carry it into the cervical canal or, if outside the vagina, as far as 50 cm from the tip of the penis.
Resolution in men and women is similar, but with one important difference. During resolution men have a refractory-period during which they can’t become sexually aroused again or have another erection. In some young men the refractory period is brief, a matter of a few minutes. It tends to increase in duration as a man grows older.
Women don’t have a similar refractory period. If effective stimulation is continued immediately after orgasm, many women can promptly reach a second (and in some cases a dozen or more!) orgasm. Second and subsequent orgasms can be more or less intense than the first.
There’s been a lot of publicity about women’s capacity for multiple orgasms since it was described by Masters and Johnson. Unfortunately the knowledge that we can have more than one orgasm has created a performance standard with a competitive ring. Women who had been previously quite happy with one orgasm started to feel that they were missing out if they didn’t want or couldn’t reach more. Though many women enjoy multiple orgasms, others find that their genitals, especially the clitoris, are too sensitive to tolerate more stimulation after the first. If one orgasm satisfies you, that’s fine.
Let me stress that this description of sexual response is a generalisation. It describes what usually or most often happens. Of course there will be differences in when and how much these changes happen between individuals and from time to time in the same person. The description also makes no distinction between the responses to intercourse, other stimulation with a partner, or masturbation. This is because the same responses occur, in much the same order, regardless of the stimulus that evokes them.
What’s the point of knowing what happens to our bodies during sexual response? The main benefit has come from debunking myths and gaining better understanding of sexual problems. The knowledge can be used to help people correct problems.
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